It started well. You were all over each other. You liked her. She liked you too. At some point, it seemed like you’d be together for longer than you had planned. This is strange to you because all you wanted was some fun. After hundreds of onlyfans milf videos, all you wanted was to experience the thrill that comes along with milfs. So you went ahead and got yourself milf. And here you are now…she’s silent and you’re worried. What in the world is going on?
You’re confused for several reasons. First off, you haven’t really dated a milf before. Sure, you’ve had a fling here and there. You know that sometimes couples go silent on each other and before long, everything goes back to normal. You’ve never been in milf territory though. You have no clue what is going on. Even the mature onlyfans models you follow for advice don’t seem to help. So, what exactly is going on? Miss Katie , one of the most popular milfs on onlyfans knows what’s up. According to her, she could be silent because of any of the following reasons.
She Just Wants Some Space
We’ve all been there before. When you really want some space. You crave for solitude not because anyone has wronged you. You feel pensive and may be even nostalgic. Ask any couple you look up to and they will tell you as much. So yeah, it could be happening to the milf you’re seeing. All she wants is some quiet. The best you can do at this stage is leave her alone.
Note that this is often a very sensitive and by a large mile, delicate period. One wrong move and you can easily push her off the cliff. Treat her with the gentleness of a dove at this stage. This doesn’t mean in any way you pamper her. Far from it, all you need to do is simple – leave her alone. Call her at least twice a day to ascertain if she’s okay and leave it at that.
It is also important to note that this kind of emotional roller coaster – where she’s high one minute and low the next – is unpredictable. You can never see it coming. There’s therefore, nothing you can do to prepare for it. It can happen while you’re out on a date having fun or when she’s away from you. By the time you meet for the coffee date you’re looking forward to, she could be sombre and forlorn. The flipside is also true. She could suddenly turn ecstatic, happy and all over you. Yours is to embrace the highs and lows as they come.
She’s Thinking About You
Yup! Some good news for you here. She could be thinking about it. It turns out that some people aren’t skilled at expressing their emotions. They choose to keep it to themselves. By the time this happens, you’ll most likely be in the loop on where you stand with her. There are always tale tell signs that she’s into you. Note though, that this is very rare. Many milfs have seen it all. They have no time for games so they’ll tell you in black and white. Either way, ask politely. The worst that can happen at this stage is a simple request to give her space. On the other hand, the best that can happen is…you already know it – a ‘good time’.
Work Related Issues
People read too much into things sometimes. If you’ve known each other for over a month, then there is a high likelihood that you already know her work schedule. She could’ve gone silent on you because of work related issues. It happens. As a matter of fact, you may have gone silent on her too because of work related reasons. Check on her. Find out what she’s up to.
Be candid enough to request for a date. This can actually go a long way to help her cope with a tight schedule. You may also want to ease her workload if you’re both in the same line of work or business.
The Mirror Effect
You haven’t heard of the mirror effect before – admit it. She could be reflecting you. You could have gone silent on her so she could be silent too. She’s not revenging or trying to get even. She could be giving you the space she thinks you deserve. Fortunately, you can always reach out to clarify things. Let her know that you’re both still in a good place.
A Ploy To Figure Out Where You Stand
Many women hate to do the chasing. It doesn’t matter how old the one you’re seeing is. The rule of the thumb for many women including milf onlyfans models you follow is to always let the man do the chasing. Now as strange as this sounds, your milf could’ve gone silent on you to figure out where you both stand. It happens especially where there’s chemistry. She wants you to come out and clarify things. She wants to know where you both stand. So yeah, reach out let her know what’s up.
You Messed Up Big Time
You’re not an angel. She isn’t one either. You’re both bound to make mistakes. You may have messed up big time. It could be something you said or did without realizing. Sure, at some point, she’ll speak it out. Milfs hardly ever have a hard time pointing out that they are upset.
Take this lightly at your own peril. If you’re not careful, you could end up arguing. That could very easily mean the end of you. You’re not dating remember. You’re just seeing each other. Yours is an exclusive relationship. And even if you were dating, arguing could still be detrimental to your relationship. This is exactly where your conflict management solution skills come into the picture.
You already know the cardinal rule as a man – apologize. Nothing good ever comes out of ego – that, is refusing to concede that you’re wrong. Even in cases where you are convinced that you aren’t wrong, say you’re sorry. It is an absurd rule but it is one that’ll see you get far in any relationship you ever get into.
You Could Be Overthinking
Humans, especially the ones in love, can’t help but overthink. She goes silent for a second and you immediately think she wasn’t to ditch you. Relax, you could be overthinking. As already pointed out, her silence could be because of work related reasons or other good reasons that have little or nothing to do with you.
Wrap Up
There comes a time in any relationship – whether it is a short term fling or even a real relationship, where silence creeps in. It could be that you want some space so you distance yourself a little. It could also be like already pointed out, that she wants some space. In many cases, it is often the queen of the relationship who chooses to hit the pause button for a while. For many people, this usually spells doom – that’s the case always though. Like you may have already learnt, it is sometimes a phase in a loved one’s life that calls for introspection. Relax, you’ll both be fine.
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