It’s finally happening! You’re officially into older women or if you may…MILFs. They turn you on. You also like the fact that they are confident, always seem to know what they want and more importantly, sexy. This just didn’t happen though. It was something gradual. You watched Miss Katie once. Then you found yourself craving for more of her content. Before you knew it, you subscribed to her onlyfans content. You then realized she’s one of the hottest milfs on onlyfans…
So far so good. You no longer see older women the way you did before. They turn you on in a way that makes you feel really good. There’s a problem though. You found yourself a MILF. You’ve been chatting and flirting for a while but you just don’t seem to make any progress. Well, it happens so you don’t have anything to be afraid of. With a few tricks up your sleeve though, you can win her over and yeah…get laid. Before then though, take into account the following rules. They’ll go a long way to help you get laid.
Confidence Is Key
No doubt you’ve watched a handful of milfs on onlyfans. You may have noticed something common in all of them – confidence. You can tell from the way they maintain eye contact when they talk. You can also tell from how they hardly ever blush or stutter when getting naughty. No picture yourself on the other side of the spectrum being shy. It just won’t work. The best you can do is to match her confidence. Remember you’re dealing with a woman over 40. There’s really nothing she hasn’t seen or heard yet from guys she’s laid before or from the ones who’ve unsuccessfully tried to lay her. Whatever you do, exude confidence as you chat and as you talk.
You probably don’t know this yet but women – both young and old – find confidence sexy. They love spending time with men who know what they want. Play the part well. Express yourself well. State what you want with flawless coherence. Without flinching an eyelid. That alone, will have done close to a third of your work.
Be Smart With Your Compliments
Older women, just like their younger counterparts, love compliments. There are mistakes though, that many men make as they complement milfs. The rule of the thumb here is very simple – compliment sincerely and unconditionally without expecting anything in return. Attractive milfs have for sure had guys all their lives telling them they are sexy. They see through such complements and know for a fact that when the person complement is only doing so for the sake of sex.
By all means be smart. Avoid basic and obvious compliments like ‘You’re very sexy’. You certainly also shouldn’t tell her she has a nice ass when really, she’s not curvy. These kind of complements come along with two main drawbacks. First off, many men giving them expect at the very least, to be complemented back. They may also complement expecting affection, reinforcement or as already mentioned sex. Milfs know that they have no choice but to reciprocate such complements. They feel obligated and like you’ll later find out, obligation is attraction’s number one killer.
Here’s a secret when complementing a milf. Mention that you already know other guys tell her she’s sexy all the time. Tell her too that you don’t mind saying it too. Somewhere in between your complements get creative and be naughty. Send her as sexy gif or even a wink then overtly state that it’d be nice to have her for an afternoon or even a night. All while, remain respectful. The naughty character should come from her. Not you. You can then match her energy and become naughtier as you keep the conversation going.
Don’t Be Boring
Again, this is pretty obvious but man men still don’t get it. Here’s the thing about being interesting when you’re flirting. You don’t have to struggle. As a matter of fact, struggling to be interesting is already a sign you’re not. The best way to go about it is to talk very little about yourself. Let the conversation flow and remain centred about your milf. She’s older probably way older than you are so you can be certain she has a lot to say on matters life than you do.
There are great conversation starters you can try when flirting with a milf. If you’ve already built a rapport, you can mention a thing or two about onlyfans cougar videos and see where the conversation goes. That would be a bonus point for you if she’s already on the platform. If you know your way around onlyfans, offer a few free insights and let her know you’re willing to offer more insights at a ‘fee’. Be sure to change the topic whenever you sense your shared chemistry taking a nosedive.
Give Her Time
The last thing you want to exude as you flirty with a milf is desperation. Text her only once. Maybe twice in extreme circumstances. You shouldn’t come out as an idle, loser somewhere desperate to get laid. Act like you have your life in order. Women love such characters. Don’t text her repeatedly or you risk getting ignored or even blocked.
Text her before she goes to bed. Get naughty as you wish her goodnight. Move with the flow until you’re both sleepy. Some experts suggest cutting off the conversation when it’s really going on well in a bid to create some tension. There’s nothing wrong with such a move too.
Text her once in the morning. Have a wink accompany your good-morning text. Mention that it’d be great to wake up next to her. By now, you should’ve have figured out how to maintain a flirty morning conversation. Don’t let the flirting linger on for longer than it should. 5 minutes maximum is all you should give. You can then catch up once or twice during the day before going full throttle on sexting in the evening.
Avoid Personal Issues
First off, avoid mentioning her age. If you really have to talk about it, then she should be the one to bring it up. You may be tempted to complement her with the usual, ‘…you look younger…’ or ‘…age is just a number…’ whatever the case, avoid asking her anything about her age.
You may at some point, want to know is she has children. There’s nothing wrong with that. If you’re hoping for a one night stand though, then you really have no business asking about her children. If on the other hand you’re both on the same page than you’re getting into a relationship, then yeah, you should ask about her children. Be smart and respectful though. If she doesn’t want to talk about her children, previous marriage or anything in between, respect her decision.
Don’t Hesitate To Ask Her Out
When it comes to milfs, attraction hardly ever lingers on for long. It gradually decreasing. It is a secret many men don’t know. The further you delay the date, the harder it’ll become for you to maintain the chemistry. She may mention that she’ll be free a week after you ask her out. Don’t dispute the date. Set aside time and show up for the date. In between though as you wait for the date, be the best version of yourself. At the same time, don’t talk too much about the date.
Keep in mind that milfs and women in general are more likely to accept date invitations while in a good mood. That’s precisely why you should ask your milf out when she’s either laughing or just having a good time.
Do Your Homework
She may have mentioned that onlyfans puts food on her table. Do your homework – watch her milf onlyfans videos. Check her out too on her other social media platforms. Don’t commend on each videos or photo you see though. You’ll only come out as creepy. By the time you agree on the date, you should have known a few things about her. That way, you’ll find it very easy to hold a conversation around her career. You don’t have to stalk her. You can for instance, find out more about most popular milfs on onlyfans. Talk about them and listen to what she has to say about their work. As you do this, mention something specific about her content. You should come out as someone really interested in what she does. Then unless she asks it, don’t offer unsolicited advice. Don’t compare her too with other mature onlyfans content creators.
Ask What You Need To Know
Don’t guess or assume you already know. Don’t assume too she can read your mind. As already mentioned, older women know what they want. They like it when you’re very intentional with what you’re doing. If there’s something you need to know about her, ask.
Wrap Up
Milfs are as complicated as many people think. They are actually fun. You only have to watch best mature onlyfans milfs to have an idea. The best you can do as you prepare to meet one is do your homework well. Treat her well too as your date approaches. Be sure to also exude an interesting character. Before you know it, she’ll be yours.